I have made commitments in relationships for all the wrong reasons ….physical appearance, wealth, personality traits, happiness, security, sex; to eliminate loneliness and to live up to social and cultural expectations placed on me by society. I have made monumental mistakes in unawareness, learned from them and consciously had to change my perspectives. For the first time in my life I was ready to break out of this shell of self-limiting conditions, and flower in love. Nothing is more important in establishing a healthy, empowering and loving relationship than to measure it by Spiritual Awareness; allowing your SOUL instead of your unconscious mind to be in charge and make the decision for you. Both partners “MUST” resonate on the same page “spiritually”. In other words, be vibrationally aligned (soul to soul); each seeking out to unconditionally love themselves first, heal one’s own personal wounds, learn to communicate with each other better, take full responsibility for the life they had unconsciously created, seek out the right wisdom, tools and information to enhance themselves, create the space to resolve any relational issues that surface with love, focus on their personal growth-well being and ultimately wake up from the dream of fear, limitation and separation into the Divine, together.